Dear Reader,
Recently, I encountered the late David Foster Wallace’s famous commencement speech, and I found myself captivated by his insights on steering through life’s complexities and finding meaning in the seemingly mundane. His words reminded me of a simple truth: commencement speeches represent one of our culture’s most concentrated repositories of hard-won wisdom.
These addresses fascinate me because they capture successful individuals at a unique moment—when they’re compelled to distill their life’s lessons for an audience standing at the threshold of adulthood. The speakers don’t take this responsibility lightly. After all, you don’t get invited to address a graduating class without having addressed your own share of triumphs and failures.
What strikes me most about reading these speeches is how they often seem to contradict each other, yet each rings true. One speaker urges graduates to have a plan and stick to it; another warns against rigid blueprints that might blind you to life’s unexpected opportunities. Some emphasize caring for others as the path to fulfillment; others insist you must first care for yourself before you can genuinely help anyone else.
This apparent contradiction reveals something profound: wisdom isn’t a one-size-fits-all formula. It’s deeply personal, shaped by individual experiences and perspectives. What worked for a tech entrepreneur might not apply to a social worker, and what guided a novelist through creative struggles might not serve an engineer facing technical challenges.
But here’s what stirs me most about this realization: if commencement speeches represent such valuable distillations of experience, why limit this kind of knowledge-sharing to graduation ceremonies?
We encounter opportunities every day to pass along what we’ve learned. It might be mentoring a colleague who’s struggling with a project you’ve mastered. It could be demonstrating through your actions how to truly listen to someone who feels overlooked. Perhaps it’s teaching young people in your field not just what to think, but how to think critically and creatively.
The academic knowledge we gained in school gave us tools and frameworks, but the wisdom that truly shapes our lives often comes from these informal exchanges—the conversations, observations, and examples that help us understand not just how to make a living, but how to make a life worth living.
So I encourage you to look around with fresh eyes. Notice the opportunities to share what you’ve learned, whether through formal mentorship or simple acts of guidance and example. And if you’re looking for inspiration on how to articulate the lessons life has taught you, consider diving into some of those commencement speeches. They offer a masterclass in distilling complex truths into actionable wisdom.
After all, we’re both students and teachers in this ongoing seminar we call life.
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